In recent times, there’s been a lively discussion stirred by an Australian educator who suggests parents seek a baby’s consent before changing their diapers. This notion, presented by Deanne Carson, has both intrigued and puzzled many, with one person humorously questioning if similar consent is necessary for changing a cat’s litter box.
Parenting styles are evolving rapidly, and the idea of consent is emerging in some unexpected places. Yet, the thought of asking a baby for permission to change a soiled diaper initially seems impractical, mainly because infants can’t verbally communicate their approval or disapproval.
However, Carson believes it’s more about laying down a foundation of consent and respecting personal boundaries right from birth. She envisions a culture where respect for a child’s autonomy and body is ingrained early on. By speaking to the baby—saying things like, “I’m going to change your diaper now, is that okay?”—and reading their body language, parents can introduce even the youngest of infants to the concept of personal agency.
